How To Get A Girl To Like You
Every girl is different, that’s why you are interested in one particular girl and not another. The idea is to find a set of techniques that can get any type of girl to like you. These guidelines or rules aren’t trade secrets, they are the old fashioned, tried, tested, and true techniques of attracting the woman you are interested in.
The first step in almost all cases is making an impression. The objective behind making an impression is to stand out from the crowd of other guys that she encounters in her daily life. This can range from the most subtle things to the most obvious. Most guys don’t have the natural good looks or shiny new expensive car to stand out without making the effort, that’s why you need to make an effort to stand out through some skill or talent that you are proud of that can set you apart from others. Whether it’s playing the guitar or telling a funny joke, you need to seize the opportunity to impress her when the right situation arises.
After the initial first impression, the idea is to become her friend. Girls don’t just fall for random strangers. A woman will only be intimate with a man she knows and trusts, the only way to achieve this is through time and friendly conversation. Get to know her, find out her name, and make an effort to casually bump into each other every so often. During these short hi/bye encounters, make sure to always be polite, positive, and confident. The ease of this step usually depends on the success of your previous attempt to make an impression.
The most challenging step is knowing exactly when to break out of the “friend zone” and begin subtle flirting with the girl. Staying in the friend zone for too long can make it impossible to step into the flirting role, that’s what makes this step the most delicate and intricate compared to the others. Some tips to make flirting easier: always relax, be confident, and live in the moment. No matter how badly it goes, she is not the last girl on the planet and there will always be another one available. That’s why you should never be intimidated by the task of flirting with a girl you are interested in.
Once you have clearly become her friend and had a few flirty encounters, you can now seize the opportunity to dig a little deeper and get her to feel closer to you. Contrary to popular belief this doesn’t involve you telling her your whole life story. It’s actually the opposite, ask her questions about her background, her family, her future ambitions, and her favorite things. The more she tells you about herself, the closer she will feel to you. Getting to a woman’s heart involves getting her to share with you the things closest to her heart. These are the things that you should remember very well, some things could be important and useful to know later in the relationship. As with all the previous steps, the always be positive and pay attention to everything she says.
The final test towards truly knowing if this girl really likes you and is waiting for you to ask her out is the touch test. The touch test simply involves breaking the touch barrier. Hold her coat when she puts it on, or offer her your hand if you are walking through a crowd or on an uneven surface. There is a certain look a woman will give you if it meant more than a casual touch to her, she will usually be looking to see if you share that connection with her. When she does this, all you have to do is hold eye contact and then carry on with the situation.
In case you haven’t realized, the above steps can all be done in as little as one sitting or can take up to months to go through. Just remember, practice makes perfect.