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How To Attract Women

How To Attract Women

If you are a guy who is single and not yet mingle and is struggling with how to attract women, trust me, this is what you really need to read and follow. You can easily attract any woman whom you like and can be in a relationship with them and there is no big deal in that. Just do what they like. You need to be acting both like a man and at the same time, be like a slave to the woman. You don’t really have to be crazy after her but you should make her feel your madness for her. You just need to follow some really cool steps but be determined to them and then you will be all set to flirt around.

Presentation – your dressing style, the perfume you wear, your smile, ability to make an eye-contact with a girl all gives her a warm welcoming feeling. Moreover your language shouldn’t be to slang with a girl you want to approach, just remember that silence can speak louder than words. Your body language is also being noticed and evaluated by women. Don’t just think that you are too smart to have your own style. Go through fashion magazines and get an idea of what clothes are in, which type of shoes are being worn, look out for branded watches that will suit your persona and spend time in gym making your physique a muscular one. Girls like men who are tough, macho and sexy rather then weak ones who give the impression of looser.

Interaction – the way you talk will leave the lasting impression on the girls mind and heart. It is the crucial element that triggers attraction. You should know all the values that women find attractive and then convey them too. For instance, women like men who are social and jolly. So while talking to her you can mention about the party you went and how much fun you had there to exhibit the social trait of your personality. You should let her complete the sentence and make her feel that you are paying attention to her and in between you should even nod once or twice. To catch her attention to yourself, you can crack some witty jokes that show your sense of humor. But, most importantly appraise her like she never had it before.

Security – A guy should make the girl feel secure as if you are protecting her from this bad world. Make her feel comfortable and relax with you. Avoid your bad habits like smoking and gambling in front of her.
Seduction – Another factor in catching attraction is your ability to get sexual with women. How soon you touch? How often you touch? And how sexual those touches are will decide if a woman will sense attraction for you. When it comes to touching I suggest that you touch women in manner that do not make her feel as if you are harassing or abusing her. There should be an element of Love instead.

How To Get A Girl To Like You

How To Get A Girl To Like You

Every girl is different, that’s why you are interested in one particular girl and not another. The idea is to find a set of techniques that can get any type of girl to like you. These guidelines or rules aren’t trade secrets, they are the old fashioned, tried, tested, and true techniques of attracting the woman you are interested in.

The first step in almost all cases is making an impression. The objective behind making an impression is to stand out from the crowd of other guys that she encounters in her daily life. This can range from the most subtle things to the most obvious. Most guys don’t have the natural good looks or shiny new expensive car to stand out without making the effort, that’s why you need to make an effort to stand out through some skill or talent that you are proud of that can set you apart from others. Whether it’s playing the guitar or telling a funny joke, you need to seize the opportunity to impress her when the right situation arises.

After the initial first impression, the idea is to become her friend. Girls don’t just fall for random strangers. A woman will only be intimate with a man she knows and trusts, the only way to achieve this is through time and friendly conversation. Get to know her, find out her name, and make an effort to casually bump into each other every so often. During these short hi/bye encounters, make sure to always be polite, positive, and confident. The ease of this step usually depends on the success of your previous attempt to make an impression.

The most challenging step is knowing exactly when to break out of the “friend zone” and begin subtle flirting with the girl. Staying in the friend zone for too long can make it impossible to step into the flirting role, that’s what makes this step the most delicate and intricate compared to the others. Some tips to make flirting easier: always relax, be confident, and live in the moment. No matter how badly it goes, she is not the last girl on the planet and there will always be another one available. That’s why you should never be intimidated by the task of flirting with a girl you are interested in.

Once you have clearly become her friend and had a few flirty encounters, you can now seize the opportunity to dig a little deeper and get her to feel closer to you. Contrary to popular belief this doesn’t involve you telling her your whole life story. It’s actually the opposite, ask her questions about her background, her family, her future ambitions, and her favorite things. The more she tells you about herself, the closer she will feel to you. Getting to a woman’s heart involves getting her to share with you the things closest to her heart. These are the things that you should remember very well, some things could be important and useful to know later in the relationship. As with all the previous steps, the always be positive and pay attention to everything she says.

The final test towards truly knowing if this girl really likes you and is waiting for you to ask her out is the touch test. The touch test simply involves breaking the touch barrier. Hold her coat when she puts it on, or offer her your hand if you are walking through a crowd or on an uneven surface. There is a certain look a woman will give you if it meant more than a casual touch to her, she will usually be looking to see if you share that connection with her. When she does this, all you have to do is hold eye contact and then carry on with the situation.

In case you haven’t realized, the above steps can all be done in as little as one sitting or can take up to months to go through. Just remember, practice makes perfect.



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